We experience God’s love in relationship. 
Then old personal habits come in the way. Old conditions arise infiltrating the relationship, personalizing love, objectifying it, turning it into a tool of satisfaction and blackmail.
Gods light is diffracted via the prism of the personal self. 
Love becomes a relationship between objects of desire and avoidance. 
What sort of love is that? 
Step into the light. 
God’s love is the greatest blessing.