It is not wise to hold on to that which passes. It’s an unhappy setup you impose onto yourself. 
Live gracefully, lightly, freshly and contemplate the eternal. 
You are the light of being shining through everything and everyone. 
What appears disappears. Live embracing this understanding without seeking or avoidance. 
Attaching yourself to family, friends, objects and forms is unwise and an unhappy setup. 
Everything you need is provided. Unwisely, you argue that it should be like this or like that. That is how you express and maintain your sense of separation.