Whenever you cling to the mind, you postpone happiness.
Whenever you opt for me-in-time, you reject I-as-eternity.
Whenever you grasp forms, and seek happiness in relationships, situations or experiences, you become bound by their limitations and overlook the boundless(ness) of the formless self.
Most of your choices go unnoticed. That is why it is important to develop a sensitivity and discrimination towards unhappiness and choose to let it go rather than engaging in it.
Whenever your happiness is dependent on any object, it is not real happiness.
Why limit the limitless that you are?
Why seek limiting experiences that are in time and space?
Open handed, boundless heart, you are everything.