The Self is already effortless & eternal peace, relaxation and freedom. Complete availability and peace.
Superimposed onto the Self is the me-cloud-story-history-concerns and argumentations of the imagined person we mis-take ourselves to be.
In turning your attention beyond the mind, to the source beyond, you will find the vastness of space, the infinity and eternity of the Self.
In particular in the early waking morning and in the evening as you dissolve in sleep, notice the Self.

And as you start to function in the waking dream, keep the early morning Self-impression alive … alongside your activities.
The peace and stillness of the Self are ever present beyond the world mind activities.
Remembering God is the best remembrance. In time, the Self will reveal itSelf in its full glory and magnificence.