What if we hold no conditions?
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What is it that is impacted by the events which appear in your dream? 
To whom, to what does the dream refer?
When there are personal preferences, when you hold tightly to personal conditions, then depending on the outcome, you are satisfied or disappointed. 
In such a case, your conditions are guiding your happiness.

Is it possible to have preferences without being attached to the outcome?

Then the entire field is open without contractions, without holding. Yes to the preference and yes to whichever way things unfold. 
Noticing your added conditions and relaxing your hold may be a better way to navigate. 
Gentler waters.