When you are going with the flow, there is no one resisting and there is no one going with the flow. There is just flow and no one and nothing flowing.
Sounds loco doesn’t it?
It is only loco from the perspective of the mind that perceives external and internal objects, minds and worlds.
From the dream perspective, the dream seems real and reality seems a dream (unreal).
But from reality’s perspective, it is all reality. Peaceful, joyful presence.